You might as well know from the start that this post going to be an outlet for me, because i am tired of people cursing at me.
I have never been af confronter, så if people have been talking shit to me i have just, let them and then walked away and cried for my self somewhere. but thats stops now, yesterday, we had a contractor from the morning, because we are getting our windows changed.
We got at text the day befor, at evening that they will come and change the bedroom windows. Im new to all this owning a house, and renovating thing, so i didn't give a thought that i should have giving my neighbor a notice, that the will come and make noise from 8 in the morning.
That resultet in a very unreasonable and angry neighbor. The neighbor called, and i went over to hear why, and then i just got a overhalling of cursing, and svearing, and i was just standing there with my dog. I said sorry and that i didn't think about telling that they where coming.
I went on my way, smiled and talked to my dog, because i was telling my dog to go home, and that resulted in another yelling match from my neighbor, because apparently it looked like i was laughing, but i said that i wasn't i was talking to my dog, and then my neighbor slammed the door. And keep in mind, my neighbor is like 20 years older than me or something like that.
I then thought that was it, but no it wasn't, because then my husband came home, and then he got the same overhall, and then the neighbor started to accuse me of lying when, he told what he had heard of the situation.
This morning the contractor came again, to fix the last things of this round, and we then told the neighbor that he was coming. But what i didn't expect was that the contractor asked when he came, if our neighbor was always like that, because he did also got a telling yesterday.
So i have stopped being nice, in that sense that i dont talk to my neighbor unless my life depends on it, and this is not to say that you are not allowed to be angry if something happens to you, but im just saying, be reasonable and be a grown up, and think about what you are saying and how you are doing it.